Sunday, November 19, 2023

A Few Words

I don't feel like I have much to report, although I'm sure a myriad of happenings have transpired since my last post, one of them being my youngest son's 30th birthday last Saturday. We surprised him with a family bowling party. All the local kids and grandkids were there, except for Josh who was working. I missed the opportunity for a group photo. I just wasn't quick enough. They scattered when I wasn't looking and there was no rounding them up again.

I've been doing battle with a bit of underlying depression. It comes with the holidays. One angle of combat is to put up the Christmas tree and decorate for the upcoming holidays... I like to wrap Thanksgiving in Christmas paper and tie it with a ribbon. I also like to be thankful for Christmas and all it entails, so I've decided to mix them altogether and enjoy an extended holiday season... I have a fabulous snowman collection along with a collection of fabric birds dressed in holiday garb.

Last Sunday I took myself out to breakfast and ate "alone" at the counter in a favorite local restaurant. I was alone when I ordered but a few others ended up sitting there too. We did not converse but none of us was completely alone at the same time. In the afternoon my friend Laura and I took a drive out to Hamlin Beach State Park and took a long walk. It was a beautiful day.

This morning I decided to do something different and visited a church by myself. It's here in town, maybe a mile away. It's been there my entire life but I had never been previous to this morning. I saw a few familiar faces, felt very comfortable, and will likely make another visit in the near future.

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  1. I'm glad you got out with your friend! And my skinny tree is up and decorated! I may never take it down again! lol
    hugs
    Donna

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    1. I'm all for keeping the tree up for as long as you like! Mine might just be here until March. LOL!

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  2. I'm so glad you are doing things and your tree and decorations are wonderful..ours will go up after Thanksgiving day.
    Go to go to that church and feel so comfortable at it..go again sometime during the seasons of thankfulness and Christmas..I like combining the two together.
    Sue

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    1. I wish I had rolled the two into one back when my children were little instead of insisting we had to be thankful first. The truth is we should be thankful every day (and I knew that then) and celebrating Christmas only gives us even more for which to be grateful.

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  3. I love that you took yourself out for a meal at the counter and saw some other friendly faces. I sometimes wonder what my life will look like if I outlive my dearest. Seasons of life, we all have them. Love you dear Martha.

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    1. This is a tough season but I'm growing in ways I never imagined.
      I love you too. So very much.

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  4. I appreciate the authenticity and transparency in your content.

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  5. Going out to eat alone is a wonderful and liberating thing.

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