Sunday, September 27, 2026

Always Know Where the Nearest Urgent Care is Located

 We had a scary incident at work back in August when our outdoor maintenance man was stung by a few bees while at our store. I'd never seen him at my previous location because we were located inside a gas station and they took care of the building's exterior, but he stops in at this store about once a month washing windows, pulling weeds, and sometimes washing a floor. (He's absolutely amazing with a string mops! Ha ha!) 

Anyway, I saw him come in and next thing I know he is sitting on a chair in the back of the store while  my former district manager, who was at our store for I don't know what, was helping him hold ice packs on his bee stings. He seemed overly affected for a 40 something year old guy, a strained look on his face as she helped tend to the stings. Something about it left me feeling unsettled and my attention remained partially in the back room. I had a bottle of Benadryl in my car and asked if they wanted some, ran out to get it and handed the bottle to Julie who read the side and gave him 2 pills.

His wincing, groaning and general discomfort continued to bring me concern. At one point he dumped and entire pitcher of ice water over his own head, soaking his shirt. He had Julie find him another and once he was dry made himself an iced coffee and headed out the front door. I worried about him driving and feeling sleepy due to the antihistamine, but soon noticed him standing against the three compartment sink in the back room. Still concerned, I left the floor and approached him. "Are you okay?" I asked. 

"No," he replied and held out his arms. There were hives covering the insides of both his arms. 

"Do you need a doctor?" I asked.

"Yes." he said.

Our manager was off for the day and Julie, the district manager of my previous store, had left. Our assistant manager was passing through. I looked at him and said, "He's not okay. He needs a doctor."

Ben looked at me and said, rather matter-of-factly, "There's an Urgent Care across the street if you want to take him."

I questioned whether Ben should take him, but quickly decided it was up to me, so I took this man by the arm, almost like he was a child, and led him to my car, put him into the front seat, and headed to the Urgent Care directly across the street. He moaned and closed his eyes, and I prayed he would still be able to walk when we got there. I parked as close to the door as possible in a handicapped parking spot not caring if I got a ticket, went around to the passenger side and led him into the building.

As he was not doing well at all, I was relieved to see three chairs sitting directly in front of each reception window. I seated him in one and addressed the man behind the desk who asked why we were there. "He got stung by some bees," I said.

"I need to hear from him," the man replied.

I looked at my friend who was seated in the chair. His face was red and I began to wonder if he was breathing. "He is not okay!" I said. A nurse immediately appeared through the reception area door and put her hand on his shoulder. She shook him a little, asked if he could hear her, if he was having any trouble breathing, and if he could walk. He opened his eyes and I breathed a sigh of relief. She and another man led us into the nearest exam room and seated him in a chair. He was all but a stranger to me but I stood there with my hand on his shoulder, trying to reassure him, provide a little comfort and support, and answer any questions he might not have the strength at that moment to answer. I didn't even know his name.

The first thing they did was give him a shot of epinephrine. They never even asked his name. In time he would need to vomit and they would give him an injection of something in his arm, maybe to settle his stomach, I'm not sure now. The ambulance was called, and two phone calls were made to his supervisor/friend as well and he would later meet him at the hospital. I texted my assistant manager across the street to keep him informed and suggested maybe letting Julie know what was happening. 

The EMT's arrived, helped him onto the gurney, gave him a second epi shot, and hooked him up to an IV. Once they had his information recorded and made a copy of his driver's license, they wheeled him out of the room and loaded him into the ambulance. The nurse looked at me. "Are you okay?" she asked. I wrapped my arms around her neck.

"I think I'm going to cry," I said.

She looked me in the eye. "You saved his life bringing him here," she said. She offered me a chance to sit down and brought me something to drink. My head was spinning... I eventually made my way back across the street where the assistant manager said I could go home if I wanted to. It was 1:12pm. I decided to take him up on the offer as I didn't think going back on the floor was a wise plan in the moment. 

I had to message Julie to ask how he was and her answer was as if I hadn't been there at all and she had taken care of everything. I told her I had taken him in and stayed until the ambulance came. No one, upon my return to work that week, offered any thanks or update unless asked. When the owner came in days later I specifically asked about him. She told me they had kept him until 8pm that evening but that he was doing good. She offered a blanket thank you. 

It's been four weeks now. On Wednesday I finally saw him. He came in while I was tending a customer. Our eyes met and then he was back out the front door to pull weeds. The woman owner, our district manager and the new store manager were having a meeting in the lobby. In a quiet moment I went outside to find him. "I'm so glad to see you," I said. He smiled and offered his hand. I gave him a hug instead and he offered his thanks. That was all I wanted, to know he is okay. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. 

There are still bees outside and he doesn't have an epi pen. I'm still concerned but we are all a little wiser and better informed.

PS. Always know where the closest Urgent Care is located.

Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Bits and Pieces

 * Going to the Thousand Islands alone was amazing. It's only 2 1/2 hours away and I had an entire boatload of people waiting on the other end. They didn't know me, and I didn't know them, but I wasn't alone. I was able to drive home smiling after a very lovely day.

* I took 2 1/2 weeks off work at the beginning of September (September 1-16) and used up all 39 hours of my sick time. In all that time I didn't go farther than the city of Rochester. 

* On September 2 I had a little surgery. My eye doctor had recommended this procedure over 4 years ago but I was chicken, even though eyelids had turned into draperies that wouldn't open completely. Finally, tired of struggling to keep my eyes open, I gave in and scheduled the appointment. 

* September 18 was Hannah and Sergio's 11th wedding anniversary and we went on a little family overnight. She booked a hotel near Syracuse, NY and we packed up the kids. (Actually, she did all the packing. LOL!) On Saturday morning after breakfast, we set out for Old Forge where we climbed two mountain trails and took an hour long train ride in between. It was absolutely fantastic! After a dinner of pizza and wings, Sergio drove the 3 hours all the way back home.

* On my return to work last Thursday I met our new manager. (I have worked for Dunkin almost 2 years and gone through 5 different managers...) It's been a tough adjustment for my coworkers. I don't have an opinion on the manager as yet, but I'm hoping for the best. 


Friday, September 11, 2026

Daycation Plans

There was no elaborate vacation this summer, no planned overnight stays, no travel to even somewhat distant locations. An expensive car repair in July practically emptied my savings account, and so I stayed home the rest of the summer and went to work instead. Complicating any late summer/early September opportunities was an impending surgery (another future blog post).I  weighed some Bucket List items against my end of summer options and made some plans.

Boldt Castle in the Thousand Islands has been a long awaited destination. I was there in my late teens with a youth group when the castle was in ruins but hadn't returned since the summer of 1982. When I learned there was a second Thousand Islands castle available to tour groups my plan began to fall into place. My son Dave had voiced an interest in going, but had pushed the experience off into autumn and I didn't want to wait that long. I had one open weekend left in August. 

After haphazardly tossing my plans out there, and knowing my friends had the obligation of either a large dog or an elderly parent, I decided to go on my own. Uncle Sam's Boat Tours, out of Alexandria Bay, offers a tour to Dark Island and Singer Castle with the option to stop at Boldt Castle on Heart Island on the return trip. I looked at my schedule, checked the weather, and bought a ticket online the Friday night before. I could have caught the early boat trip at 9:45 am, but I had a blood draw scheduled between 7 and 8 am, so I bought passage on the 1:30 pm voyage. 

It's a 2 hour and 45 minute drive to Alexandria Bay. I left with plenty of time to wander the tourist trap ahead of boarding the boat. Selective purchases were made; a couple bottles of water, some souvenir stickers and magnets, and a pair of sunglasses. I stepped into gift shops that looked new, and others that looked as if they possibly hadn't changed since my parent's honeymoon in 1953. By the time my tour of the shops ended, I was hungry. Lo, and behold! The Lil' River Fudge Company! Pina Colada ice cream for lunch.

(I could not upload photos the other day so this has taken way longer to post than previously imagined.)

Tuesday, September 08, 2026

July is National Ice Cream Month

It's been months since I posted. It was a summer filled with work, woods walks, and ice cream. After considering July's status as National Ice Cream Month, I decided on an Ice Cream Challenge and threw all caution to the wind. Twenty-one visits to ice cream shops in July and August. Twenty-two if a Frosty at Wendy's counts. (This does not include ice cream sandwiches or Nutty Buddies.) 

I started off the challenge with a chocolate and vanilla custard at Abbott's in Webster, and enjoyed a few of my usual soft serve twists, sometimes with sprinkles, sometimes without. A woman down at the lake told me about Netsin's and their collection of frozen custards. It wasn't long before I decided to branch out and try exciting, new flavors.

My collection of ice cream cone photos is extensive. LOL! Sometimes I went alone, and sometimes I found a friend or two. Cheshire Farms Creamery in Canandaigua, NY has some fabulous ice cream.

After one of Ruth's markets we went to Lugia's out in Spencerport where I humored my friend by ordering a medium, black raspberry cheesecake cone. That's four embarrassingly large scoops of ice cream piled haphazardly atop a miniscule cone. I ate two scoops. They were amazing!

I made three visits to Yia Yia's out in Williamson. One visit with my sister, one with Hannah, Sergio and the kids, and one with my daughter in law Leta and my Williamson grandkids. A summer must not slip by without a few visits to Yia Yia's! Rainbow sprinkles in honor of Grandmanita!!!

The Ice S'Coop out in Mendon. Bruster's in Webster. Lift Bridge Ice Cream in Fairport. Abbott's Original in Charlotte by Ontario Beach Park. 

One rainy, Sunday afternoon I met my friend Chris and her new husband at the Pittsford Dairy where I branched out a little and ordered something fun and slightly mysterious. Two scoops, one Cookie Monster and the other Monkey Biz. 

One lonely Saturday afternoon I decided to try the Moonlight Creamery in Fairport where I ordered a scoop of Cannoli and a scoop of Butterbeer. That evening my friend Elizabeth called to see if I wanted to try What's Your Scoop down in Penfield. I sucked in my tummy and said, "Of course!" Small cone, of course. One scoop of Pothole. LOL!

I tried out Cold Stone Creamery, tucked in a corner of the plaza in town. Got a fabulous sundae with my friend Gail at Oliver's Candies in Batavia, NY on her birthday. And finally made it to Netsin's. The second time I took Idris to his violin lesson and it was just around the corner. How could we pass up the opportunity? 

On August 22 I took a 2 1/2 hour ride to the Thousand Islands for a boat tour. (I'll save that post for tomorrow...) While I waited for my boat, I explored a few shops in Alexandria Bay the Lil' River Fudge Company was waiting. Soft serve pina colada because, you know, I had to eat lunch!

Another visit to the Moonlight Creamery, a return to Lugia's for a smaller sized cone, and another stop at Netsin's and my Summer Ice Cream Challenge came to an end... Kinda. LOL!