On Thursday evening I drove out to Williamson to find my friend Sandy and offer my condolences. As expected, I found other friends as well. I had hoped perhaps Sandy's cousin Wendy might be there. She is a longtime friend, but I seldom see her. Wendy and I shared a long hug and decided we need to catch up for coffee some day, along with our mutual friend Angel.Tonight the funeral home was in Webster. This mom was a neighbor of my parents and lived just a few houses down the street. Her step children were my friends. I don't see these friends often either. Two of them live out of state and I wasn't sure they would be there tonight, but there they were. More hugs, a few stories, and then it was time for me to go.
My mind is tumbling memories...
Oh Martha ~ there seems to be so many funerals lately for us too. It is always a sad time, but usually filled with good memories.
ReplyDeleteMost of them are filled with good memories, yes. Being able to laugh and smile, in spite of the sorrow, is healing.
DeleteIt seems sometimes the only time we see a few of our dear friends is at weddings and funerals. I'm glad you got to connect, even if it was for a short, sad time.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your Sunday...hope it isn't too cold for you today.
Sue
Hi, Suzan. It was a just a small connection, a little stitch in the tapestry of life, but a stitch no less.
DeleteSunday was rough. My headache did not let up and I went to bed with a bucket nearby, just in case. I think I'm okay today.